Are You a Man Who is Feeling Confused, Hopeless and Angry Due To Your Relationship Problems?
Do you feel that your wife or girlfriend doesn’t understand you and that your relationship is going downhill?
Does she tell you that you’re not “emotionally available,” too angry or that you’re not meeting her needs?
Are you challenged by one or more of the following men’s issues such as relationship problems, depression, low self-esteem, career changes, or maybe you are single and have a hard time finding the right partner to share your life with?
Here at the Heart Connection Center, we are licensed therapists who provide men’s counseling and work with smart, motivated men like yourself who want real results. If your marriage or relationship is struggling, we can help you get your relationship back on track through men’s counseling (individual counseling) or couples counseling.
If you are in a relationship, you may be worried that your marriage or relationship is taking a turn for the worse, and that if you don’t seek men’s counseling or couples therapy soon, it might end.
You want counseling alone or couples counseling to help fix your relationship problems because you know that things have been better between you and her in the past.
Many men resist getting a therapist for themselves. You may feel it will only work if you both go to couples counseling. But that’s not true, you can improve your relationship through men’s counseling.
Further, many couples put off seeing a marriage therapist for far too long.
You may also think things will just fix themselves or get better over time. You may push aside issues, withdraw or shut down and avoid talking about the deeper problems, hoping things will improve.
Due to your relationship problems you may be feeling:
- Stuck and not know what to say
- Powerless and hopeless without a good way to get past the issues
- Frustrated, and you end up saying mean things that you regret
- Unsure about how to meet her needs
- Fear of losing your mate
She is very important to you and you love her. You want to be happy and you want her to be happy as well. You both aren’t feeling happy right now and you miss the fun you used to have together.
Or maybe you are single and you need relationship help. Then you have come to the right place. We provide counseling to single men who are dealing with relationship issues that keep them from having a healthy relationship, and with guys that have come out of a bad one too.
Many times we get stuck and can’t find ourselves attracting the right partner for us.
Maybe you have just come out of a divorce, separation, or breakup. There are many issues you’re confronting like hurt, anger, grief over the loss of your marriage or relationship, worry about your kids, financial stress and being single again.
Maybe you need to heal yourself before you can find love again or maybe you just want to be on your own for a while.
In men’s counseling, we also work with the following issues:
- Alleviate your depression or anxiety and feel happier
- Caught cheating? Save your relationship and have her trust you again
- Stop fighting and repair your marriage or relationship
- Nice guys: stop pleasing for good
- Support for the issues you deal with as a man
Here at the Heart Connection Center, we know that all relationships struggle at times. You don’t have to through this relationship pain alone. We are a team of licensed therapists and we want to help you solve your relationship problems.
We have both male and female therapists who have successfully worked with many men in your position. We can’t guarantee or make any promises but there is hope and you deserve to be happier.
We will help you and your relationship create more happiness, peace of mind, and feel closer to your partner again.
Here is how we can help you with your relationship in couples counseling or men’s counseling:
- Develop more effective communication skills and open up more
- Feel closer and more connected to your partner
- Break out of unhealthy patterns of conflict without fighting
- Get the support and validation you need
- Stop resorting to withdrawal, avoidance and other unhealthy behaviors
- Rebuild trust
- Improve intimacy
Through men’s counseling, we will help you find ways to improve your relationship with your partner and to feel better with yourself.
Through couples counseling, we will work with you to figure out what’s broken in your relationship with your wife or partner and get back to being happy again together.
Maybe you are still not sure if men’s counseling or relationship counseling will help. You may have the following concerns:
Will therapy be too expensive? I don’t have the time for this.
You may be wondering if this is going to be too expensive, or you don’t have the time to invest your energy in therapy. Therapy is an investment in yourself, your relationship and your family. If you have children, you and your partner are the leaders of your family, and whatever is going on in your relationship, impacts everyone in your home. By investing the time and money in your relationship now, you are creating the opportunity for everyone to feel better sooner. You will also build a solid foundation with your partner that will be useful for life. Couples counseling can also help your repair your relationship and avoid a costly divorce. Relationship problems don’t just go away on their own; they fester and become worse with time. Don’t let them go untreated. It is time to feel better now.
What if your partner won’t come in?
This is actually quite common. Of course, we would love for both partners commit to working together to improve your relationship. However, since that is not always possible, we have successfully worked with just one person coming in for couples counseling and it has helped them improve their relationship.
Many couples that finally decide to turn to a counselor find that they are learning how to communicate and doing it in a healthy way. They begin to feel heard and understood and this brings couples back to feeling closer again. When couples begin to feel close to their partner again, and feel safe, the romantic feelings can come back and love can be rekindled! We have worked with many couples who reported feeling better just after a few sessions. Of course, we can’t promise to save every relationship but we believe in love and we want to make it easier and better for you.
I am afraid you are going to tell us that it’s hopeless and we should end our relationship.
Here at HCC, our goal is your goal. If you want to make it work, it can work. We are here to support you and get you to where you want to be in your relationship. In our first session, we will talk about your therapy goals and what you want to get out of our time together. Until you decide to change that goal, we will be on the same path you are on.
Bottom line: If your relationship isn’t making you as happy as it once was, now is the time to seek counseling.
Because you deserve love. You deserve to be happy. And we would be honored to help you find that happiness.