Here at the Heart Connection Center, we are licensed therapists who provide counseling to smart, motivated men like yourself who want real results. If your marriage or relationship is struggling, we can help you get back on track through men’s counseling (individual counseling) or couples counseling.
Here are some reasons to seek Men’s Counseling:
You may be worried your marriage or relationship is taking a turn for the worse and if you don’t seek men’s counseling or couples therapy soon, it might end.
You want counseling alone or with your partner to help fix your relationship problems because you know that things have been better between you and her in the past.
You feel it will only work if you both go to couples counseling.? If so, this myth is not true. You can improve your relationship through men’s counseling.
You may also think things will just fix themselves or get better over time. You may push aside issues, withdraw or shut down and avoid talking about the deeper problems, hoping things will improve.
How long will I be in therapy?
This varies from client to client. It depends on so many factors but on average clients have reported they start to feel better after the first session!
It’s a relief to talk to someone about life’s challenges and see that you are not alone. Most clients stay for at least 10-12 sessions. Some will stay in therapy longer because they see the benefits of how counseling continues to improve their lives.
I am a man – will counseling makes me feel weak?
I am not usually comfortable talking about my feelings.
It takes courage to go to counseling. It doesn’t make you weaker, it actually makes you stronger. You will talk about lots of things in counseling, not just feelings. You will talk, laugh, and possibly even cry at times. Not only is the process healing, but your quality of life and happiness will greatly increase. It’s a win-win for all.
I work a lot. I don’t have time for counseling.
Counseling is an investment in your well-being. We will find a time that works best for your schedule to work with the availability of your therapist. Our goal is to make it as stressless as possible. We offer evening and weekend appointments so counseling doesn’t interfere with your work.
These and many more are reasons for you to make your call today!
Due to your relationship problems, you may be feeling:
- Stuck and not know what to say
- Powerless and hopeless without a good way to get past the challenges
- Frustrated, and end up saying mean things you regret
- Unsure about how to meet her needs
- Fear of losing your mate
She is very important to you and you love her. You want to be happy and you want her to be happy as well. You both aren’t feeling happy right now and you miss the fun you used to have together. Or maybe you are single and you need relationship help.
Then you have come to the right place.
We offer services to men who are struggling with relationship challenges as well as those who have recently experienced ending their relationship.
If you have just come out of a divorce, separation, or breakup, there are many issues you’re confronting like hurt, anger, grief over the loss of your marriage or relationship, worrying about your kids, financial stress and being single again.
Maybe you need to heal yourself before you can find love again or maybe you want to be on your own for a while.
In men’s counseling, we also work with the following issues:
- Alleviate your depression or anxiety and feel happier
- Caught cheating? Save your relationship and have her trust you again
- Stop fighting and repair your marriage or relationship
- Nice guys: stop pleasing for good
- Support for the challenges you deal with as a man
Here at the Heart Connection Center, we know all relationships struggle at times. You don’t have to go through this relationship pain alone. We are a team of licensed therapists and we want to help you not only solve your relationship problems but have a loving and thriving life with your partner.
We have both male and female therapists who have successfully worked with many men in your position. We can’t guarantee or make any promises but there is hope and you deserve to be happier.
We will help you and create more happiness, peace of mind, and feel closer to your partner again.
Here is how we can help you with your relationship in men’s counseling:
- Develop more effective communication skills to open up more
- Feel closer and more connected to your partner
- Break out of unhealthy patterns of conflict without fighting
- Get the support and validation you need
- Stop resorting to withdrawal, avoidance and other unhealthy behaviors
- Rebuild trust
- Improve intimacy
Through men’s counseling, we will help you find ways to improve your relationship with your partner and to feel better about yourself.
We will work with you to figure out what’s broken in your relationship with your wife or partner and get back to being happy again.
If you are still unsure if men’s counseling or relationship counseling will help, let us answer the following questions.
Will therapy be too expensive or What if I don’t have the time?
Therapy is an investment in yourself, your relationship and your family. If you have children, you and your partner are the leaders of your family, and whatever is going on in your relationship, impacts everyone in your home. By investing the time and money in your relationship now, you are creating the opportunity for everyone to feel better sooner. You will also build a solid foundation with your partner that will be useful for life. Men’s counseling can also help your repair your relationship and avoid a costly divorce, improve your work relationships or help you to have a more satisfied life. These problems don’t just go away on their own; they fester and become worse with time. Don’t let them go untreated. It is time to feel better now.
What if your partner won’t come in?
This is actually quite common. Of course, we would love for both partners to commit to working together to improve your relationship. However, because it is not always possible, we have successfully worked with just one person coming in for couples counseling, and it has helped them improve their relationship.
Many couples who finally decide to turn to a counselor find they are learning how to communicate and doing it in a healthy way. They begin to feel heard and understood and this brings couples back to feeling closer again. When couples begin to feel close to their partner again and feel safe, romantic feelings can return and love can be rekindled! We have worked with many couples who reported feeling better after just a few sessions. Of course, we can’t promise to save every relationship but we believe in love and we want to make it easier and better for you.
I am afraid you are going to tell us that it’s hopeless and we should end our relationship.
Here at HCC, our goal is your goal. If you want to make it work, it can work. We are here to support you and get you where you want to be in your relationship. In our first session, we will talk about your therapy goals and what you want to get out of our time together. Until you decide to change that goal, we will be on the same path you are on.
Bottom line: If your relationship isn’t making you as happy as it once was, now is the time to seek counseling.
Because you deserve love. You deserve to be happy. And we would be honored to help you find that happiness.
We invite you to call us today at 561-203-9280 for your free phone consultation to talk to our friendly staff, share your story, and set up an appointment.